Updating

Finally my Prince is becoming more independent.  He’s cooing, drooling, and discovering how his hands and feet function. I absolutely Love being a Mommy. In the beginning I wasn’t so connected. I didn’t have postpartum, but having the baby looking at him, knowing he was mine was all too surreal, but now oh baby…but now….the way he looks at me melts my heart.  My attention could be on reading or cooking and I could just feel something that takes me out of my zone and there he is looking at me. When our eyes meet he smiles and when he smiles it’s breathtaking, I’m on cloud 9…that’s my baby.

OK so while baby has been taking all of my time, I want to break down my opinions on my favorite reality shows.

Real Housewives of Atlanta

RHOA used to be one of my favorite reality shows that’s right used to be. Now that Kim and Nene aren’t friends, Sheree and Nene aren’t friends, Phaedra and Nene aren’t friends what’s the freaking purpose? For RHOA to continue they need to do the following;

a. Fire Phaedra, Cynthia, and Kandi. They just don’t make for great reality television.

b. Get Sheree a love life. Show Nene’s hustle. Incorporate Kim’s new life. Add three new cast members.

I can’t think of anything else I’m getting sleepy just thinking about it. Something on this show has to change.

Mobb Wives

These women are in your face, they’re blunt, and not afraid to get down and dirty. I wouldn’t change a thing. Drita and Renee are my faves.

Love and Hip Hop

I just started watching this show and me likey. Chrissy needs to stop the physical fighting cuz she seems to be a cool chick. I like Kimbella. Don’t know too much about Emily except all I hear is Fab this, Fab that she looks sad. I like Yandy, not really feeling Olivia and that Erica chick blahhhhhhhh. Continue reading »

In My Opinion…

These pictures set off a new trend at NBA Games…up and coming starlet’s said, “Hey if Beyonce & Dem models can wear heels to games so can I.”

Me, Myself, and I to Us, We, & We’re

We had some good times…

I’m gonna be away from you for awhile, but I’ll be back for a lil sippy sippy here and there.

The sacrifices one must make as they enter parenthood. I’m not by any means abandoning my single girl independence, it’s just that things will be different. Everything is no longer about me, myself, and I.

I’m embracing the us, we, and we’re full throttle.  Maybe I should meditate and chant. I know I said that I will easily transition to this new part of my life, at the same time I know I’m letting a lot of things go, like: taking long naps, answering to no one, being in my own world, being highly engaged in my narcissistic thoughts and actions, getting up and heading out to my car in less than 5 minutes. We had a good time Ms. Independent, we really, really did.

My Nightstand

Nine Months Strong

Joy, joy, joy a new life begins. It’s about that time, the transition is about to take place. Everyone keeps telling me how much my life is going to change, I guess I have to deliver to fully see what they’re talking about.

Throughout this pregnancy barfing has been the norm. OMG…how many times did I barf in the car, in bags, in towels, all over my clothes, the side of the bed, on the carpet yuck! Good riddance!

I am so excited about meeting this baby that has been growing inside of me. Whenever I am down, feel defeated and weak I touch my stomach and he moves. Whatever my issues are, he reminds me that I don’t have to sweat none of the BS. I love my little warrior so much already. Good things truly come to those that wait.

Pregnant & Finally Loving It

Whew chile! I have been M.I.A. big time, especially when it comes to blogging. However now that I’m home I have some time before baby to get some blogging in. First of all being pregnant hasn’t been a picnic for me. In the first four months I barfed everyday. People told me that after the first trimester I’ll be back to normal…ummm how about I barfed today and yesterday? I have a picky little eater on my hand, but at the same time my food choices haven’t been the best.

I thought that I’d be one of those totally conscious health nut while pregnant, ummmm not so much. I mean I knocked down the caffeine intake, Cesar salad dressing, not eating any meats that are uncooked the basic no’s no’s I have abided by, but baby Zaxby’s, Chick-Fil-A, and an occasional fast food burger has been craved and consumed by yours truly. I take my daily vitamins and me and my girl Niyla take daily walks, but the walks are getting hard! The baby is pushing down, because I am after all about to enter my 9th month.

So I’m on my way back to my apartment wobbling, breathing heavy, carrying mail, holding my phone and Niyla’s leash…some dude & doll approach me about locating an apartment, I tell them they’re headed in the wrong direction, he then proceeds to tell me about a church that he’s trying to build in the neighborhood and wondered if I’d be interested. I HATE SOLICITORS!  So I’m like trying to be a nicer person since I’m gonna be a Mom and what not, so I allow dude to kick his knowledge, then he wanted to share some scriptures with me. I was like I don’t have time, this baby is pushing down, and I gotta use it. I wished him luck , told him I’m not interested then I wobbled back home.

There are cons to being pregnant. I can’t sleep on my stomach, the barfing, breathing hard (like my name is Big Bertha), watching my boobs change shape and color, and not having a comfortable sleep position, but the perks are just wonderful especially when it comes to getting out of stuff, oh yea getting out of going places you don’t wanna go, avoiding people like dude I mentioned is simply priceless, thank you baby.