“She makes you trust her against all logical judgment, makes you want to please her even if your own happiness is compromised, and imprints herself on your mind with disconcerting speed and force.” I read this quote years ago in Utne Magazine. I felt like this quote was talking directly to me because I had (…)

We love our girlfriends and we especially love it when they get along with our man. We invite our girl to hang out with us and we really don’t think anything about it until an outsider steps in and says something. Suddenly we become more aware of our threesomes. We hug our man a little (…)

When do you throw in the towel when it comes to a relationship?

Every two weeks I read her post on Facebook. She’s bitching about how hard life is and how she can’t do anything because she has a baby. She’s 21. According to her she’s going through it. I told her countless times that she has to be strong. I provided her with links to support blogs (…)

Don’t worry this isn’t a black male bashing thread. I personally think the white woman is fading out for the more looking exotic chick. I just wish some of this men had a chick with more melanin in their skin. Oh Juanita Jordan I wonder who you’re booed up with.

All you gotta do is blink. Why is it that your boy, brother, uncle, step-daddy always gotta have a woman? You just got used to the chick he was with, but here he is…smiling & laughing like you’re supposed to do the same. Why do some men fall so hard, so fast?